Sociopaths or psychopaths, two different words for the same thing. I had 2 in my life for sure. The first one thaught me how to see one coming from far. The second one was very good and fooled me. Caught me with my guard down.
The details don’t matter but the story goes like this: you meet, at school or at work, you are doing something together on the same side of the trenches. You click well and have fun. Lot of things in common, good stories. You help him and he helps you and it goes on for some time. And then one day you realize you are the only one giving. And he is acting weird, bossy or hostile or just creepy weird. Next day he apologizes and he acts like the old-him. But something doesn’t feel right. And it’s downhill from there. Start talking to other people in the same trenches you two have been fighting in and they all say the same thing. And you go, WTF!
So here is what happens, these people have no empathy.and will never have it, this thing has no cure. They have learnt how to be social chameleons and say what you wanna hear. When you start figuring out it’s all fake, they become hostile as it is your fault that they are F-heads.
My first certified psychopath had a sister that knew what was going on. When I asked her she gave me the only advice that has ever worked: Run! Get him out of your life, now! Cut your losses and walk away and never look back. These people are cancer in your life and they can end up hurting you badly.
Note to the 2 psychos in my life, if there is a remote chance you ever read this. Go do us all a favor and jump off a very tall building, now! Don’t wait, you are a parasite. Or if you are afraid of heights, at least go take a long vacation in North Korea…
Note to everybody else, read up on this. Learn how to recognize it and cut the cancer out of your lives….
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